“you have a beautiful gift. I cannot thank you enough for the time you took to not only read me but to leave me a detailed answer to my question.

To people that are hoping for a reading, this person is fantastic.”

Situation: The Sun, 2 of Coins, 7 of Swords. I don’t see the Sun as positive here. I would invite you to let yourself fully feel the heat of this situation. It’s common to normalise something that’s difficult, and then become immune to the fact that it’s making you both sweat. The 2 of Coins shows that the situation between you and your ex is a practical partnership - like two old coins that have been together for a good while. I’m doubting that it’s really comfortable for you because of the 7 of Swords card. 7s are about wishes, and there is conflict for you here, conflict between what you wish for and how things are.

What helps: 5 of Swords. 5s are obstacles, Swords are sharp. So how does this actually help for a new relationship? Cut through your present situation to find room for a new partner.

What doesn’t help: Strength. Caring can drain it. I’m a support worker for a living, so I know this. Being strong for your ex leaves less strength available for a new partner - that’s how Strength is working unhelpfully here.

I’m absolutely not saying stop caring. I am saying that people have a limit to how much care they can hand round. While you are in your current situation, I don’t see this as conducive to meeting somebody new.

Thank you for the opportunity to read for you. I hope that this has proved useful.